True Story.

Honestly, I didn't know Mary well.  I didn't know her from the OBY, and at the time that she was friends with some of the people i know, i was immersed in my own message board.  I only friended her on FB because she friended me, and i actually had her 'hidden'.  I would only look at her pictures, or conversations on occasion.

Occasionally there was a twitter conversation, but it was always my foolish bantering and blathering, never anything personal or of substance.

So when Mary 'died', i just looked around at some of the comments people had made, and sat back on my haunches.  Didnt seem real, didnt seem right to me.  There wasn't anything that really jumped at me.  I don't know much about her back story, i didnt know much about her 'treatment', or cancer, or MS, or ALS.

I looked at some pictures of 'Chloe', and it clicked.  I had seen the girl before.  On my Grey's message board.  The mother had asked a friend of mine not to use the girl's pics (She would use them as illustration of what her character looked like)

It was the same kid... this was all Thursday.  I did some more digging, and found that the nursery pics were stolen, the chloe pics had been taken from the FB, but the 'newborn' was still there.  That was also stolen.  The pictures of 'daniel' were stolen. 

I didn't like the idea of people i know and care about mourning the loss of someone who obviously didn't exist, or at the very least, was misrepresenting themselves.

I'm not in the business of blame.  That's not my job.  I just wanted it to stop.  That was why I posted the blog.  I turned off comments, and I was very clear. 

The internet is not an invisibility cloak.  It's not a fountain of anonymity.  Things can be researched, found, and exposed if they are fraudulent.  I honestly don't care who Mary is, or the reasons for doing what she or even 'he' did.  The point is, that it was wrong.

For all I know, the ruse was just some kind of sick psychological experiment. 

I posted the blog yesterday, because i'm a blabber mouth that can't keep her trap closed... and couldn't see the positive side of allowing REAL people mourn someone who doesn't exist, or doesn't have the decency to be themselves.

Sorry about the babbling :)

The Fan.

It’s with a heavy heart that I pass on this information.  Please look at the following links, and read below.

 

www.lisateso.com/blog/bio

 

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sesameellis/sets/72157594312116799/

http://twitpic.com/photos/brainysmrfs

http://lisateso.com/blog/4-hour-body-slow-carb-diet-week-1/us/

 Lisa and her husband are real people.  Gemma, is a real little girl, and they all deserve respect.

This, and hundreds of other pictures are NOT Mary.  These are not who you think they are and the ‘person’ that has taken a real person’s identity and turned them into this ‘martyr’ should be ashamed with themselves.  Maybe you believe in Karma, maybe you don’t, but there are some good people that believed your little fiction.

 A little advice.  If you’re going to try to screw with people, maybe they shouldn’t be fans of police procedural television shows, or fiction.  Perhaps next time you decide to screw over some good people, you should consider getting a beta to check over your work.

I’m done with the drama.  If I haven’t met you in person, or know someone that has, then you’re just as dead as fakeMary to me.

In the words of another drama that I hold near and dear to my heart.

 

“It’s the truth or the white whale. What difference does it make? I mean, both obsessions are impossible to capture, and trying to do so will only leave you dead along with everyone else you bring with you.”

The person responsible for this has two days to remove all traces of this fraud from the internet.  Apologize, or not, what you are doing is identity theft, and if it does not come to a stop, there will be consequences.  In two days, if I find a trace of this, you will be reported to the people whose pictures you stole, and possibly the police. 

I’m done.

PJ Out.